*As usual, I won't be editing my updates as the idea is to just get our days events and my thoughts recorded. This isn't for a grade or publication! Thanks for understanding and feel free to reply. We love hearing from you!
We were warmly welcomed by Sue and Monk Hun as soon as we got outside the airport. In about 25 minutes, we arrived at her lovely home. It's quite unique with beaded doors, stone sink & doors that open completely to the outside. Simple yet elegant. We walked the compound that includes two bunk houses for the boys who live here, a bath house, a library and a school. We met several of the boys who range in age 6-28. Wegot a brief back story and all this while a loud band played with intensity in the background. There's a wedding across the street. Sue made us a delicious chicken salad & fresh homemade bread. Hun didn't join us as he doesn't eat after noon. Tomorrow plans were discussed and then Sue went to the upstairs bedroom as she'd insisted we stay in her downstair suite as the water pressure isn't working. We were in bed by 8. And ready. All slept well until 2:30 when the dogs had a party and then 4:00 when the local wedding celebration began again. Such an effective loud speaker! After some coffee & toast, we walked over to peek at the wedding. We were encouraged to pass the crowd of elegantly, glitzy attired guest, each holding a golden platter with various items on top & held on with cellophane. Fruits, vegetables, nuts, sodas, beer, etc. We watched as the parents exchanged gifts & the guest entered each given some $$. We were immersed! At 9, we loaded the car with school supplies, clothing, Monk Hun, us & Sue at the wheel…out for a Sunday drive. Not the leisurely normal Sunday drive with stops at an ice cream shop or park. Our drive was over rutted roads with stops at homes where people with many needs lived. Sue and Hun had been alerted to these needs by the village chief who joined us at several stops. There was the young girls whose mother had died & father raped her. Using rice & $ to bribe the father, he agreed to keep his distance and let her go to school. She had received a bike, school uniform & supplies earlier. This was just a check up to see all was well. We stopped for lunch at a relaxing spot with lots of shade. The village chief, the administrator of the area and a photographer, Jo met us there. Jo is working on a documentary on Monk Hun. I jumped in the tuk tuk with her so I could feel the air & taste the dust and we went off to our next stop. It was the home where an albino girl lived with a neighbor as her parents left to work a year ago & has only been home once. The young girl had extreme vision issues when Sue first met her and had already taken her to get glasses. Since then, she has learned to read and ride a bike so we gave her one of her very own with a basket filled with school supplies! We all clapped as she took off on her bike. On to the next stop where a blind boy lived with his grandmother as both parents had died. Sue & Monk talked with the Gma getting permission to take him to a school for blind. Hun had also arranged for us to stop at the home of another blind person. A father who lost his sight about 10 years ago and last year his wife died. His 8 year old daughter cares for him. Again, with much encouragement, he agreed to have Sue take him to see an eye doctor soon. Some of Hun's boys meet us at village center. They'd driven the motorcycle with a flatbed loaded with bikes. There 3 other kids were gifted bikes with baskets filled with school supplies. Lots more smiles!!! It was almost 5 by now but there was one more stop. The home…shack…of an old couple (actually about my age) who lived there with two granddaughters. The Gma was a skeleton and could hardly move. The Gpa was blind and almost completely deaf. The parents of the girls were dead and the gparents were worried about what would happen to the girls as they surely couldn't take care of them much longer. Also, the girls were beautiful and they couldn't protect them either. Sue is hoping to build them a small brick home where the girls will be safe and can care for the gparents. When they pass, the girls will have a decent home. Hun said it'll take about $4000 and they must check to make sure the land will be theirs. That's the next step. It seems so wrong to have to wait to get them all in a better place. We arrived home exhausted but filled with a deep sense of satisfaction. Rog & I made a supper of scrambled eggs & toast and cleaned up. Sue headed up to her room to journal…as did I.
