Final Thoughts
Never have I been in a place that needed more help than Tacloban. We've seen many poor...but never so many poor burdened with so much loss. Their resilience and faith is remarkable. In China we saw great need...but we could do so little to help...water was not to be found and only the gov't could allow them to move from their unproductive & isolated location. Here with AH, we could make a dent.... and have a great time with amazing kids from all over the world. Our week helping the special need kids at Mother Teresa's orphanage and the two weeks with Children's Garden was very rewarding and brought lots of smiles to us and the kids. Walking among the ancient yet still worked rice terraces was breathtaking. Bohol's beach was relaxing. And as usual, Rog got us where ever we wanted to go and shared all the joys & challenges with me! How can I be so blessed???
Sunday, March 1, 2015
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Update 57
The founder of All Hands, David Campbell, his wife, Gay (Boston) and the major fundraisers, Ian & Shannon (London) arrived. I learned lots about AH. Just ten years ago at the age of 62 David started AH. He'd gone as a volunteer to help after the Indian Ocean tsunami and that sparked a fire within him. We enjoyed hearing him enthusiastically talk about AH. Here's a few things he said that impressed me:
-AH's motte: Get Shit Done
-3 major missions: help disaster victims, give them encouragement and volunteer personal growth
-AH steps in when an event overwhelms a community with over 100,000 homes destroyed
-Only way to know what the needs are is to be there so they always send in a crew ASAP
-Over 2 million people live in refuge camps & average stay is 17 years
-AH counts on volunteers and also trains & hires locals
-It cost AH about $25 a day for each volunteer (food, housing, transportation, staff) and about $30,000 a month to run the Tacloban project which includes building homes each about $5000.
-AH gets some funding from other major NGO's like Habitat, Blessing Children & OIM.
-Because AH did not feel like they were qualified to help in the ebola & yet wanted to help...they offered some of their proven, effective staff to help with the organization...they know work for another NGO.
-His final & strongest message to us was that we are not late to the party...we are the party. AH is young and he looks forward to seeing how the AH volunteers create the next growth phase...we are the creative ones on the ground solving problem after problem on work sites that vary day to day. We are the ones that will see and meet the needs in the future. Inspiring message to this group he called: "The good for nothings."
Update 58
Out of Our Comfort Zone by Rog
Volunteering with All Hands has been one of the best experiences of my life. I hope that there will be an opportunity for us to work with them again. If we had not been willing to get out of our comfort zone we would never have come here. It has been a great joy to meet and work with wonderful, energetic people from many countries who have come together with the purpose of helping the people of Tacloban. It really gives me hope for the future when I see volunteers from various places around the world coming together with a common humanitarian purpose. Many volunteers speak of how much fun they are having and if they must leave, how they can't wait to come back. One girl simply said, "This is happiness!". Those that have to go on mandatory break complain that they have to leave. Who would have guessed that hard manual labor could be so uplifting and valuable to the volunteers?
We are here and helping those who have suffered greatly. As we build in Barangay 83C, the houses go up in front of the family and offer hope for them to have a brighter future. The fact that so many volunteers come back day after day and continue to help the community reminds everyone there that although they have suffered so much they are not forgotten in their misery.
The founder of All Hands said it best when he told the volunteers, "You are a bunch of good for nothings". He explained that we are like-minded people who are willing to do good for nothing. Actually most volunteers have given up jobs and/or other opportunities for the chance to be here helping the people of Tacloban. I am awed by the level of commitment by many...not just weeks but months and months of volunteer labor...some have been here since the typhoon struck in Nov. 2014. The conditions here are challenging..just walking down the street is tough (see Jane's scraped knees). Tools are shared among many volunteers so that just when you get going and start to make some real progress a saw or chisel or tape measure disappears for a while. The local carpenters that are also working on the house cheerfully share the tools with us even though most of the volunteers are not as efficient with the tools as they are. They know that their continued employment is dependent on the success of the project and funding necessary to build would disappear if the volunteers were not here (Typhoon Yolanda is old news now so less is given to assist them).
We carry all of the tools (some purchased with DUMC $) to the worksite each day so the loading and carrying of tools is a big job that seems to get accomplished easily by the mostly 20-something volunteers who manage the chore without complaint. One day it was announced that there would be no power from 6AM to 6 PM -good thing we have been improving our skills with hand tools! The building site itself is usually a tiny lot surrounded by neighboring houses so there is very little room to spread out and have sufficient space to work. Nearly all of the neighboring houses were put up by families after the typhoon. They used anything available...scrap wood, tin blown from another house, a piece of tarp or plastic. Many were emotionally scarred by the typhoon and the loss of their loved ones but had no choice other than to carry on the best they could. They generally cannot afford to purchase anything for their house. When I gave my worn shoes to one of the carpenters he said, "Thank You! I spend all of my money on my family so I have no money for shoes."
Update 59
It's been a long time since we've been so dirty & tired! We have both been working on building homes for the last many days: nailing up wall boards, laying floor boards, constructing windows, hauling wood, digging holes, mixing cement, bending re-bars & making cement rebar frames ...and enjoying the company of the AH volunteers, home owners & their neighbors. The home owners glow with joy and today, Doris hugged me tightly & cried when I said good bye saying thank you, thank you...
Update 60
Our final day with AH was a trip to Calampong on Samar island where AH is building boats for many of the fishermen who lost or damaged boats meant no food on their tables. The ride there was through rolling hills covered with coconut trees, thatched roof homes, rice paddies, water buffalo, glimpses of the sea, over the longest bridge in the philippines and all on a newly paved road. Rog rode upfront with the Filipino driver Ray who talked the whole time and he too told his Yolando story. He had an aunt who'd lived through New Orleans's Hurricane Katrina and she told him to go to the mountains...he tried to convince his neighbors to go to but they figured they knew how to survive a typhoon...after all this area weathers about 20+ a year...Yolanda was #25. When Ray came down from the mountain, the streets were covered with debris, trees & dead bodies including his neighbors. For almost a week no help came. Bodies smelled. He tried to help by carrying people to the hospital...but some asked him to just carry them to a church or the cemetery so they could die there. Today his kids panic when a storm starts. How do you face that fear so often? How do you rebuild again...and again...and again?? Why pick up the trash...next storm will bring it all back.
When we arrived at the pier, we got in a small boat with bamboo outriggers and crossed a bay where several fish farms had been constructed...I do love being on the water. The AH crew was working hard when we arrived and we got right to work...Rog planing & me painting. The man who will own this boat was painting too. Our time there went by quickly & soon all the AH crew & their gear was loaded into boats & we then the jeepney that headed back to the AH base in Tacloban. I thought of how Jesus first called fishermen to follow him. Today I felt Him smiling down on me & all the AH crew in Calampong.
Update 61 by Rog
On the way to Samar, our driver Ray, told me that after the typhoon many people were so traumatized by the destruction that they walked around like that TV show...The Walking Dead. I don't want to visualize what it must have been like here right after the typhoon.
Many people tell us their story with little or no prompting. I think they need to tell someone, and somehow through the telling they can process a bit of what has happened to them and their city. They probably don't want to talk about it with others who live here as they also have memories of Typhoon Yolanda. So maybe they really need us to listen to their stories.
Jess (Filipino now living in New Zealand) rode back to base with us from Samar. She saw a Ted Talk on Doctors without Borders several years ago and decided that she would prepare herself to work for them. She is now an epidemiologist and has been working with them for three years. When she has time off she comes here to work with All Hands. Asked about ebola, she said that she thought that eventually it would be less deadly and have an impact similar to Dengue Fever or Malaria. Is that a good thing???
Update 62 by Rog
Traffic and Safety
In our lifetimes there has been great progress in reducing traffic injuries and deaths in the U.S. We have better roads and road signs and we have many stop signs and traffic lights. In the developing countries that we have visited we see very few road signs and almost no traffic lights, but everything seems to flow along surprisingly well. Road conditions and congestion often limit speeds here to 30-40 mph and all drivers seem adept at avoiding collisions. Motorcycles fill in the gaps between and beside vehicles and often continue for great distances over the center line when getting past slower vehicles. Oncoming traffic may slow a bit or just move over to avoid the on coming traffic in "their" lane. When pulling out into heavy traffic little care seems to be given...just pull out and then see that the space appears. If you need to go in the opposite direction, just look for a little gap in oncoming traffic then make a slow U-turn right in front of them and trust that they will brake to let you in. This can be a bit frightening when you are riding in the sidecar of a small motorcycle and the sidecar is the first part to swing across the road! Pedestrians cross anytime and anywhere if there is a small gap in traffic. We are told, "just walk". If you panic and run or stop in the middle of the street to wait for a car to pass by you are usually in more danger than if you continue across the street at a steady pace. The drivers see you and are avoiding you so it is best to act like the rest of the pedestrians here.
Imagine...Dexter with no traffic lights or stop signs, slower traffic using all of the road. This might be easy for Grandma Boyce to do because that was what it was like in Dexter 80 years ago.
Update 63
Two more stories told to us by Ray (the driver to Calampong):
-There's lots of foodoo practices in Samar. For example, when the long bridge was built, the blood of over 1000 street kids was mixed into the cement to assure it's strength.
-Best way to prepare dog: Day 1 give the dog a big juicy bone to chew. Day 2 & 3 feed dog rice and Day 4 give the dog only water. Then cook and eat. It will warm your body especially during the rainy season.
Can't imagine how many more stories he has!.
Update 64
Here's the best way to describe the "Pilopino"....(yup that's how they pronounce it) culture as told to us by a Filipino:
"We are like the Halo Halo (favored dessert combo of shaved ice, Ube ice cream, sweet yellow & red beans, flan, red tapioca, green jello, candied bananas, coconut milk & cookie wafer) We are a unique combination of many cultures. When you first see it you are overwhelmed but the more you dig into it, let the ice & ice cream melt, stir it up....the better it becomes. And we are like the jeepneys. From the left overs of WWII, we created the colorful, unique & very functional vehicle that fills up with happy "Pilopinoes!"
Update 65
Sunday. Our last day in Tacloban. We set out about 7 a.m. to check out the Chinese cemetery where families build a "vacation" area complete with a little kitchen, bathroom & furniture with decorated roofs surrounded by gates...with the elevated graves "dead" center & photos displayed with flowers & incense bowls. It's a Chinese tradition to worship & honor their ancestors. Many must travel great distances thus needing a place to stay when they arrive. I was surprised to see stain glass or statues of Jesus with Buddhist statues next to them. Next we looked for a barber. While Rog sat in the barber chair...I visited with the lady who ran the fruit stand & recharging station right in front of the barber shop...three businesses operating in one spot. She loved seeing my pictures. $1.25 is all it cost to make Rog feel & look much better. And it was fitting that we'd spend part of our last day in Tacloban in a church. When we found one, we slipped in...just as they were reciting the Nicene creed...the same we say in USA. Then the choir began to sing, "Lord here I am to answer your call. Here is my heart..." I was overwhelmed with a strong feeling of reassurance that God had led me here. Next, the call to prayer:
Ask God to help us as we struggle with understanding the suffering. Hear our prayer.
Ask God to continue to have the help we need from others.
Hear our prayer.
Ask God to encourage our Gov't officials to serve the poor and not give into the call of the rich and powerful. Hear our prayer.
And if my hear was not already torn...the last song ripped it open:
"Because He lives, I can face tomorrow. Because He lives, all fear is gone. And I know I can face the future, Just because He lives." Singing this familiar son with people who'd lost so much. What an emotional and poignant experience. Rog & I both fought back tears.
Back at the hotel packing our bags, I felt like I was deserting. Last night I'd cleaned my legs & arms with a scrub brush...trying to remove the dirt that had accumulated...Tacloban dirt. It felt wrong...like I was washing my hands of Tacloban. Though I know I'll be so thrilled to hug my grandkids & kids, visit with family & friends, take long hot showers, sleep in my own bed, eat meals with no rice and be surrounded by my own, clean home...I will also feel guilty...for having so much all my life. So many Filipinos asked me not to forget them and pray for them. I will.
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Update 55
Tidbits:
-Another language "uniqueness" is that words are often said twice. Ex: Halo Halo (dessert), Sari Sari (small store), Waray Waray (dialect in Tacloban)
-Filipino's have the most flirtatious way of saying yes...they lift their eyebrows and have a smirky grin.
-Since Yolanda uprooted so many trees, it is much hotter in Tacloban.
-Philippine University professors have to do one money making project every year and then give the $$$ to the university. Tuition is ver low...less than $40 a semester...but most jobs require a university degree...even McD!
-Very few police carry guns and there is very little military presence.
-Our evening AH meetings are short, informative and very light hearted...if only staff meetings had been like that!
-Re-bar foundation frames are a REAL pain to make!!!!
Update 56
The tool shed is done1 Rog has worked almost everyday this week on it and today I joined him. It will house lots of dirty tools that were being stored in the dormitory. Rog has gotten many compliments on it's construction and some tease him that it will be christened "Roger's Tool Shed." Bad news is last night the dorm was robbed. Someone climbed a back fence, crept into an open window in a bedroom where Nestor was sleeping. Since 6 guys sleep in there coming & going all the time, Nestor didn't suspect anything. Several computers & phones wee stolen. Nestor felt so bad...not just because his computer & phone was gone but mostly because he was ashamed that a fellow Filipino would rob good people here to help. What a shame.
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Tuesday, February 24, 2015
54 and 55
Update 54
It's Saturday & Rog went to a work site working on a foundation but I got to join a group of 7 AH playing with kids! Again we went to the community with no electricity where AH worked on over 200 homes. AH had purchased Christmas gifts for them but since Typhoon Ruby hit in early Dec...they had not been able to get the gifts to them. Amy, AH head of the program, kept busy with that. We also took bubbles, balls, large legos, books, bingo, balloons, crayons & coloring books and lots of energy. We kept the 90 or so kids totally entertained for about 3 hours. Amy asked me to teach the kids some group games so once again I taught my favorites: Doggie, Doggie; Bluebird, Bluebird; Simon Says; and balloon volleyball. I'm kinda feeling like Johnny Apple Seed...only Janey Game Giver!
Update 55
Sunday--our day off! We had a trike to take us south toward the ocean with only a few ideas of what we might do and leaving the rest to chance. It was the first time we'd seen the ocean here in Tacloban. How eerie to face the killer of so many. The giant seawall was shattered...but in the distance I heard cries of laughter...Filipinos frolicking in the waves. I could hardly imagine a scene so filled with mixed emotions. A bit further down we came to McArthur's Park where a monument showing the General, the exiled Philippine president & several US soldiers coming ashore...the statues stood in a pool of water and the plague said, "I have returned." Later in the day, we'd see Hill 102 where the US Flag was raised after defeating the Japanese. Seems like we've been doing a WWII tour this trip! We got into a trike again & told the driver to take us to the next town. We happen to get off next to a print shop & since I told Amy I'd get copies of some of my pictures, we got that done. It was a mom/son shop. Son made my copies while mom fried hamburgers. As Rog waited outside, a pedicab driver came by singing "Just Smile though your hear is aching..." Should be the theme song around here. Then a lady with a huge growth asked for money...since the hamburgers were so hand, we just bought one for her. There was a nearby church so we walked to it and just before we entered, someone called out our names. It was Nestor, a AH volunteer we'd worked with. He was with a friend, Ann who lived in Tacloban. She and Nestor were both electrical engineer university professors. They asked us to join them for a tour and visit two schools where they were doing the electrical work as volunteers. Nestor is pres & Ann is VP of the Volunteer Electricians Organization. So we joined them and our grand tour began and did not end until 8 hours later! Ann's sister had been principal of the first school we visited and was now principal of the second school. At the first, we were shown classrooms where repairs had been done, conversed with several teachers and then they insisted on pictures. The next school we stayed longer as they examined the needs. I sat with 4 teachers...one Ann's cousin. They were hilarious! They called themselves "4 Women in Waiting" --Ha ha. They were married to their classroom. Ha ha. They had to re-do all their charts, bulletin boards, decorations etc. after Yolanda took off the roofs. One classroom was leveled & several others almost totally destroyed. I took pictures and they asked me to show them to Obama so maybe he'd send them $$. Ha ha. The K teacher was a volunteer who was getting 1/3 pay ($150 per mo no ins.) as the school had no $$ to hire her. She asked if she could get in my suitcase. Ha ha. She'd pack an oxygen tank. Ha ha. The K teacher said her kids were well behaved and many were reading. All lessons were taught in both mother tongue & English. Biggest problem was they had to go poo poo lots and since she had no bathroom--she sent them home to poo poo. Ha ha. But they came back cause they lived close. When Nestor finished his evaluation, more pictures were taken...all with the K teacher hugging me. Since we were so close to Ann's family country home, we stopped there for a lunch she'd brought : rolls, cake, pineapple & Coke. (Typical sweet stuff) The porch & roof had been damaged but not too bad. It was a modest home--rough by US standards-- but as Ann told us about all the fun she and her cousins had here...it reminded us of the cottage in Atlanta. Coconut, banana, mango, & lemon trees were fun to climb and between their fruit & the rice from their paddy they had all the fresh food they needed. Her cousin who lives across the street now cares for it all. He came over, climbed a coconut tree and cracked 3 for us. We drank the juice & ate the milky lining. After about an hour, we drove along the ocean. Ann pointed out her many family members' homes...some quite damaged...but she had not lost any family. She described what she saw after Yolanda as we passed some of the hardest hit areas: here's where most of the bodies were found; her's where everything was so leveled there was no way of knowing where you were; here' where a house in almost perfect shape sat in the middle of the street; here's the hospital where patients had been moved to the basement for protection & then to an upper level floating on mattresses; here's the church where so many came for refuge but drowned; here's the Coke plant, the first plant to be re-built; here's a mass grave; an another; and another; here's the monument they are building. As we drove she told about seeing people carrying bamboo poles with their dead family members hanging on them. Other searching...but other already rebuilding. She said the people's strong faith allowed them to accept saying the lost were with God now. Ann said the people were angry at the gov't as they are sending little help and under estimated the deaths because they were ashamed. The true lost was over 15,000. Sobering. We drove to where the 6 freight tankers were washed ashore. 4 have been removed piece by piece and 3/4 of another. A family lives in what is left. They are trying to move the only one left back into the ocean. Can't imagine how? But then, I can't imagine how so many shacks have been built all around the ship. We left the coast and headed for the Santo Nino Shrine.. a chapel & palace built by Imelda Marcos as a showpiece here as it is her home town. According to our guidebook, it wasn't suppose to be open on Sunday, but like the rest of today, we lucked out. Though we had a guide showing us around, Ann was filled with even more stories as she had played here as a child because her best friend's mom was the caretaker. Talk about luck! Opulent barely describes the place...crystal, ivory, mother of pearl, jade, imported items from China, Russia, Paris, Vienna, theme decorated bedrooms & walls with 1" blocks glued together to look like a weaved bamboo. The chapel had two life size mosaics and the altar centerpiece was a Christ Child statue from Rome. Ann took our picture in the spectacular ball room as we pretended to dance. Imelda nor anyone else ever slept here. The gov't that took over after Marcos confiscated it and sadly, the humidity, termites and lack of care are slowly causing it to deteriorate. Priceless art work & furniture is already ruined. There is only talk of possible restoration. Ann said that although the Filipinos did not approve of the lavish spending, Philippines were better off when Marcos was president than now. We got dropped off at our hotel...but since our sweet lunch was all we'd eaten today....we jumped in a jeepney and soon were mowing down french fries & hamburgers at the Texas BBQ. What an incredible day!
49, 50, 51, 52 and 53
Update 49
So many hurting people...so many caring people...so much hard, dirty work...pretty much describes the last couple days. We continue to hear their Haiyan (they call Yolanda) stories. Worked with Vanessa at the warehouse today. She's a late 20's Filipino lady. I knew when I asked if she had children...the answer might be hard...but she'd asked about mine. She had two both died when Yolanda washed them away while they were with her Mom...a 5 yr old girl & 7 yr old boy. She described the storm: winds over woo MPH (category 5 tornado) for over 3 hours and 3 huge ocean waves over 20 ft tall with tremendous power smashing...smashing..smashing. The water formed gigantic whirlpools sucking in everyone & everything . The earth was shaking. Then the dead...everywhere. Vanessa wished she had died too. She started helping those around her and then hooked up with All Hands...it's why she's here now. She has a tattoo on her wrist she says she must read often..it reads: just keep breathing. And she and so many like her is what fuels the AH volunteers. Though I try to do my part, I can't carry the heavy beams, bags of cement & gravel for blocks over rugged surfaces to the sites. I tire after digging & mixing cement by hand (no cement mixers & we draw water from a well with a bucket) and then it must be wheel barreled to the sites. My arms are sore after pounding nails (no nail guns). But these young kids seem to delight in doing such hard physical labor. ..quickly volunteering to crawl down into holes filled with stinky water up to their waist. And all the time cracking jokes & teasing each other. Rog can almost keep up with them and they call him "the beast." He's worked lots on the tool shed. I felt immense satisfaction when I completed the railing & facade on one of the front porches. Each thing you do here you hope brings a bit of healing & comfort to someone.
Update 50
Resilient. I have a deeper understanding of that word. The Filipinos live that word. The young boy at the place where we eat lunch told me his Yolanda story today...all the time smiling. At first he and his sister went to a low cement building for protection from the wind which is usually what they do...but then the water came so they went to the highest spot and still the water was up to their chest...his siter was screaming but ha had to remain strong. Finally the water level lowered and he searched for his Dad...he found him. Then he went out in the street in front of their place and it was covered with bodies. They had much work to do to start up their business again. He ended his story saying the typhoons & earthquakes make the Filipinos strong. I am not sure it would have that effect on me. I asked him what he was studying in school. He replied he wanted to be a chef...adding "I hope to see you in America! It's everyone's dream to go to American!" The conversation made my afternoon work sawing re-bars & sewer tubing much easier. After our evening meeting, we watched a documentary on Yolanda (Haiyan) which verified the stories we'd been hearing...the unimaginable strength, length and effects of Yolanda. Though many meteorologist had been tracking the typhoon & warning the Philippine gov't that this typhoon would be much worst than any other...that warning was not passed on. Indeed even the head of the Tacloban weather warning station did not realize the danger and his body has not been recovered. Katie, AH staff member, was here about ten days after. She talked about how difficult it was to face the devastation. ..but then after she worked several months, took a break and returned...she wept seeing how the Filipinos had picked themselves up and started over. Resilient.
Update 51
Today 3 families were given a new home. The AH group was almost as overjoyed as the families! In the evening, we drove about 30 min to a small community without electricity that AH worked in earlier. After playing with the kids a short time, we set up a screen & showed "Despicable II" to about 90 kids. How fun to hear so much laughter! Great Day!
Update 52
Food here is either spicy or sweet. Don't think a day goes by without eating some type of cake or donut and most deep fried. Even the banana break is deep fried after it is baked! And it's cheap! How do you pass up a fried chocolate filled roll for less than 4 cents?? Meat is usually chicken or pork in a spicy, sometimes curry sauce with carrots, yams or green beans mixed in. Rice is served every meal except once we got spaghetti--with a sweet tomato sauce. Lots of cabbage slaw similar to ours. Kids seem to be eating crunchy snacks all the time and all are flavored: BBQ, chili, beef, cheese, pepper, pork, etc. Can't hardly buy a plain chip. Coke & Sprite...in glass bottles usually..are everywhere but finding a Coke Zero or Light close by is impossible...but I go the distance to find one. Today I found the first "limitless" fountain Coke Zero for $2.25. I guzzled my first one, then heard a bell ring & a waiter quickly came & refilled. As I finished that one, another bell rang...this time I saw the bell ringer who was watching me & smiling. One bell ring later, my thirst was finally quenched. AHHHHH!
Update 53
The language here is so unique...it hopes between the local dialect of the area and English. Last night we were watching the local news--about 2/3 in the local dialect intertwined with 1/3 English. When I asked a local about it--he just grin and said "It's our new language." Though we've heard it for over 6 weeks now, it still cracks us up!
Saturday, February 21, 2015
46, 47 & 48
Update 46
It's more fun in the Philippines is the logo you see everywhere. Why, they can even make a flight to Tacloban more fun...first load 1/2 late, sit on plane another 1/2 hour before take off, then fly the hour to Tacloban & just as it comes into sight, turn around and land in Cebu. Wait for an hour on the plane, go back to Manila, sleep in an not the nicest hotel, back to airport lines, get to gate, switch gates, load only 15 min late, wait in plane 30 min before take off...finally land... all for an hour flight...and the day after a night on the bus which had arrived in Manila at 4 a.m....but we did have several nice visits with many local passengers and our food bag is much lighter & easier to carry now. It's more fun in the Philippines!
Update 47
As we entered the Tacloban airport, the uniformed baggage men chanted a welcome in unison with huge grins--which was not at all what I'd expected from people who'd suffered such an immense lost just 1 1/2 year ago....over 6000 dead & still over 2000 missing. As we headed to our hotel with a jolly cab driver who had lost his home, we saw roofless buildings everywhere and shacks built from a mishmash of materials. A few obviously new buildings were interspersed between. We dropped our suitcases and headed out to search for tools we'd consider purchasing....stopping at a bakery...Rog's favorite stop...and there we met a couple who shared their tragic story of losing their 14 yr old daughter. Then at the hardware store, the clerk told us she'd lost 4 family members...how weak it sounds to just say I'm sorry. We found a huge burger & great fries at a Texas BBQ ...and also met the director of All Hands Leyte Project, Smitty who came in for a burger too. By 8 a.m. the next morning, we were getting the tour & basics of the All Hands (AL) headquarters here...also on the tour was a family of 4 who had come as a birthday present for the Mom. About 50 - 60 volunteers & staff are housed, feed & tooled up for their work projects each day. Their routine is a well oiled machine. We then met with Smitty & together decided the best use of the money our church's men & women groups had donated...2/3 for tools & 1/3 for boat construction. What a privilege to personally deliver the donated money. They were thrilled and so very thankful!! In less than an hour, Rog & the tool manager were shopping for much needed tools. I was assigned a work team that was building a septic system...soon scraping cement frames & back filling walls...and sweating. A hearty dinner awaited us at 5 pm & followed by a mandatory meeting that recapped the day's progress, announcements, welcoming new volunteers & assigned jobs for tomorrow. At 6:30, though exhausted, we went looking for a cold Coke Zero...and then back to our hotel for a much needed shower & sleep. Though all the other volunteers bunk 4 to 8 in a room, we pamper our old bodies by living in luxury...at least by Philippine standards...air conditioning & sometimes hot water. A well spent $22 a night!
Update 48
Day 2 found Rog building a floor & ma siding a house. The wood used is from the coconut tree...very irregular in density, size & shape but locally milled. AL houses were designed by a young Slovakian, Lucia who had just come to help & ended up being the main architect. She designed a home with a strong foundation that could withstand a typhoon & earthquake using readily available material (coconut wood/bamboo) that could be replaced easily if damaged, met minimum standard living code & fit on an existing tiny lot. Lucia designed a very functional & attractive 2 story building with a small porch all built on 3" stilts. Lucia's eyes sparkled as she told me how thrilled she was to see her vision--her baby--come to life! The volunteers that are making it happen are an amazing group of mostly young people...more girls than boys...from so many different countries. Many have been here for months...some years... and many keep extending their stay. They work so hard in such hot weather with only the very basic tools and in such rough conditions...but their end product looks like the Taj Mahal compared to the houses surrounding them. Those houses ...shacks were probably poor before the storm...and just poorer now. It's hard to imagine how the rusty metal, cracked wood, plastic pieces held together by wire, rope & a few nails can be called a house. I met the family who is moving into one of the AL houses...the satisfaction I feel make me forget all my sore muscles. After dinner & our meeting, we were treated to a saxophone concert by Joseph on the roof. As the notes floated in the cool night air, I couldn't help but feel like I was where I should be.
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Sunday, February 15, 2015
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Update 45 by Roger
A much more comfortable night (for Roger) on the bus from Banaue to Manila...we ate at our hotel restaurant before leaving and had some fun with the cook and waitress when I complimented the cook and told her that we enjoyed the sizzling chicken with rice meal that she had fixed. They both giggled like schoolgirls so I asked "Will you be my Valentine?" More laughter and smiles.
Arrived early at the bus stop and had a chance to get settled in before the bus loaded up. It was good to get dressed up warmly because the AC was working well and we needed four layers of clothing to be comfortable for the 9 hour ride to Manila. The driver was very skillful as he zoomed around trucks, trikes, pedestrians, dogs, etc. and even one car that was swerving badly across the center line (drunk?) to get us safely to Manila at about 4 AM.
One taxi, then a jeepney (full of dozing Filipinos that could not keep their heads from flopping around so eventually they just rested their heads on the next guys shoulder), finally a trike and we were back in Antipolo to collect the bags we had left there on Monday and also to once again connect briefly with the staff and kids at Children's Garden. Many of the the boys welcomed another bear hug from "Papa & Mama Bear". But Aguton was most affected by our return. He had worked closely with me on many projects at CG and I know he was disappointed to see us go. I gave him some change for his piggy bank and one of my favorite shirts (blue plaid). He put a keychain (painting of a volcano) on my suitcase. It reads COSTA RICA on the back. Hard telling how it got here and in his possession but I think it must have been a valued item for him and consider it a special present. He is a special friend that I would like to see again. Dropped off near Papa John's Pizza so we enjoyed a very U.S. style lunch. You never know when the next good meal might be some ways off ! Besides, they had Coke Zero (Jane's new fav). Flew to Tacloban but weather prevented landing so back to Manila...will try again today.
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A much more comfortable night (for Roger) on the bus from Banaue to Manila...we ate at our hotel restaurant before leaving and had some fun with the cook and waitress when I complimented the cook and told her that we enjoyed the sizzling chicken with rice meal that she had fixed. They both giggled like schoolgirls so I asked "Will you be my Valentine?" More laughter and smiles.
Arrived early at the bus stop and had a chance to get settled in before the bus loaded up. It was good to get dressed up warmly because the AC was working well and we needed four layers of clothing to be comfortable for the 9 hour ride to Manila. The driver was very skillful as he zoomed around trucks, trikes, pedestrians, dogs, etc. and even one car that was swerving badly across the center line (drunk?) to get us safely to Manila at about 4 AM.
One taxi, then a jeepney (full of dozing Filipinos that could not keep their heads from flopping around so eventually they just rested their heads on the next guys shoulder), finally a trike and we were back in Antipolo to collect the bags we had left there on Monday and also to once again connect briefly with the staff and kids at Children's Garden. Many of the the boys welcomed another bear hug from "Papa & Mama Bear". But Aguton was most affected by our return. He had worked closely with me on many projects at CG and I know he was disappointed to see us go. I gave him some change for his piggy bank and one of my favorite shirts (blue plaid). He put a keychain (painting of a volcano) on my suitcase. It reads COSTA RICA on the back. Hard telling how it got here and in his possession but I think it must have been a valued item for him and consider it a special present. He is a special friend that I would like to see again. Dropped off near Papa John's Pizza so we enjoyed a very U.S. style lunch. You never know when the next good meal might be some ways off ! Besides, they had Coke Zero (Jane's new fav). Flew to Tacloban but weather prevented landing so back to Manila...will try again today.
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Saturday, February 14, 2015
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Update 45 by Roger
A much more comfortable night (for Roger) on the bus from Banaue to Manila...we ate at our hotel restaurant before leaving and had some fun with the cook and waitress when I complimented the cook and told her that we enjoyed the sizzling chicken with rice meal that she had fixed. They both giggled like schoolgirls so I asked "Will you be my Valentine?" More laughter and smiles.
Arrived early at the bus stop and had a chance to get settled in before the bus loaded up. It was good to get dressed up warmly because the AC was working well and we needed four layers of clothing to be comfortable for the 9 hour ride to Manila. The driver was very skillful as he zoomed around trucks, trikes, pedestrians, dogs, etc. and even one car that was swerving badly across the center line (drunk?) to get us safely to Manila at about 4 AM.
One taxi, then a jeepney (full of dozing Filipinos that could not keep their heads from flopping around so eventually they just rested their heads on the next guys shoulder), finally a trike and we were back in Antipolo to collect the bags we had left there on Monday and also to once again connect briefly with the staff and kids at Children's Garden. Many of the the boys welcomed another bear hug from "Papa & Mama Bear". But Aguton was most affected by our return. He had worked closely with me on many projects at CG and I know he was disappointed to see us go. I gave him some change for his piggy bank and one of my favorite shirts (blue plaid). He put a keychain (painting of a volcano) on my suitcase. It reads COSTA RICA on the back. Hard telling how it got here and in his possession but I think it must have been a valued item for him and consider it a special present. He is a special friend that I would like to see again. Dropped off near Papa John's Pizza so we enjoyed a very U.S. style lunch. You never know when the next good meal might be some ways off ! Besides, they had Coke Zero (Jane's new fav). Flew to Tacloban but weather prevented landing so back to Manila...will try again today.
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A much more comfortable night (for Roger) on the bus from Banaue to Manila...we ate at our hotel restaurant before leaving and had some fun with the cook and waitress when I complimented the cook and told her that we enjoyed the sizzling chicken with rice meal that she had fixed. They both giggled like schoolgirls so I asked "Will you be my Valentine?" More laughter and smiles.
Arrived early at the bus stop and had a chance to get settled in before the bus loaded up. It was good to get dressed up warmly because the AC was working well and we needed four layers of clothing to be comfortable for the 9 hour ride to Manila. The driver was very skillful as he zoomed around trucks, trikes, pedestrians, dogs, etc. and even one car that was swerving badly across the center line (drunk?) to get us safely to Manila at about 4 AM.
One taxi, then a jeepney (full of dozing Filipinos that could not keep their heads from flopping around so eventually they just rested their heads on the next guys shoulder), finally a trike and we were back in Antipolo to collect the bags we had left there on Monday and also to once again connect briefly with the staff and kids at Children's Garden. Many of the the boys welcomed another bear hug from "Papa & Mama Bear". But Aguton was most affected by our return. He had worked closely with me on many projects at CG and I know he was disappointed to see us go. I gave him some change for his piggy bank and one of my favorite shirts (blue plaid). He put a keychain (painting of a volcano) on my suitcase. It reads COSTA RICA on the back. Hard telling how it got here and in his possession but I think it must have been a valued item for him and consider it a special present. He is a special friend that I would like to see again. Dropped off near Papa John's Pizza so we enjoyed a very U.S. style lunch. You never know when the next good meal might be some ways off ! Besides, they had Coke Zero (Jane's new fav). Flew to Tacloban but weather prevented landing so back to Manila...will try again today.
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43 &44
Update 43
It was one of those days when the day grabs you and you just hand on and enjoy the ride. We met up with our hired driver & 3 ne buddies & took off toward the Hapao hotsprings.....listening to country music which is sooo popular here. We drove past miles of more rice terraces...and I took tons more pictures as each time the van stopped, another unique and fabulous view just demanded a picture. Overwhelmed by the number of terraces here! When we got to the trail head, we hired a guide (as they are very convincing) and took off traversing across hundreds of terraces...becoming a speck in this web of terraces. The narrow path was between two paddies...on level with the path & the other about 4 ft below. Often a moat with running water ran beside us and several times we crossed over deep ravines...path the size of a big balance beam...carved out by the mountain streams. We passed farmers knee deep in the thick gray muck...with only a hoe to work the paddy. When I asked about water buffalo, the guide smiled & said, "Man is the water buffalo here" as the mountain terrain is too difficult & cost too great. Many fresh green patches of rice shoots...babies in their nursery...were ready for transplant which is only done by women...seems right that the women cares for the babies! We crossed a swinging bridge over a rushing stream and next to it was a sparkling clear pool formed by great boulders. Quickly we stripped down...and since we'd left our bathing suits in Antipolo...Rog in his boxers & me in my shorts & bra (which actually covered more than the bikini the other girls were wearing). ...and then stepped into "heaven." One end of the pool was too hot but the other end just right as a small bit of the mountain stream was being diverted into the pool. We soaked for over an hour...hadn't felt that clean since we left Hawaii ! All good thing must come to the end & so once dressed, we headed back this time through the forest area. I found several little ones whose eyes sparkled when I gave them a balloon. A treat for both of us! Coming out of the woods, we walked through the village of Hapao & noticed right away that it was better off than other villages...and there was hardly any litter !! Signs saying "Don't throw trash here" "Don't throw trash in paddy" ...even "Don't throw trash anywhere"...and waste baskets too. Our guide told us this town actually produces enough rice to export some. What a progressive village! By the time we got back to the van, we'd all decided to ask the driver to take us to Hungduan...to see terraces actually called "Spider Web." By now the road ws a series of tight curves...so we laughed when we saw an occasional curve ahead sign....thinking it made more sense to have straight ahead signs. We passed more miles of terraces with the homes clinging to the side of the mountain. How they don't topple down is beyond me...and where do the little kids play & how do they stay safe?? As we got closer to the top of the mountain, the clouds began to roll in and so when we reached the viewing point to see the Spider Web terraces...they were swallowed up by a cloud. Oh well, it had been a fabulous day ...our buddies said best they'd had in the Philippines...and like our tiger trip in India--it's more important to "See the Journey" than only the destination!!!
Update 44
As I sat in our hotel sitting room writing, a 50ish Japanese doctor started talking to me. He too is headed to Tacloban but only to see it. He kept saying, "You good people" when I told him we'd would be working there. Then he asked me to come to Japan & help where their tsunami hit...he showed me pictures & said it happened because of global warming...and that led to a discussion on that in which he pointed out USA use of fossil fuel. He asked me about Obama & GW Bush (saying he thought he was the worst US pres ever). Some how religion came up...he was Buddhist...so the two things you are never suppose to talk about...we did for about an hour. In the end, he shook my hand and said he was so honored to meet a "good ordinary American."
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Update 39 & 40
Update 39
We took off early today to go deeper into the mountains...farther into this culture & away from civilization...to Batad. Rog forgot about being Mr. Careful and climbed on top of the jeepney...I did not as someone had to live for the grandkids! We chugged up and around and down the mountains on roads that clung to the side. Rog said it was exhilarating and the views were fabulous. At the end of the road was a shop where we "rented" a walking stick and wonders of wonders--I got a cold Coke Zero! The rest of the way was on foot. We passed many workers who were building more road and then onto a narrow but well worn path...the one the Batad villagers use & have used for many years. About an hour later, we came out of the woods and everywhere you looked...terraces! I'd read if you'd line them up side by side, they'd reach half way around the world...and now I can fathom that. The small village of Batad was a bit farther and placed int eh center of the terraces. We stopped part way down the mountain at Hillside Inn where we gladly took off our hiking boots and sat admiring the panoramic view while we ate...Rog a Middle Eastern dish & me, pizza (well kinda like) and a Coke Light...who'd of thunk? Hearing the kids at a nearby school, I took off to check it out. The first grade teacher invited me in where the 22 kids were quietly copying from the board. They greeted me saying, "Welcome visitor" & then said the ABC's & counted to 10 for me. The classroom was neat with birthdays posted, neat work displayed and two large signs:
Lazy hands make a poor man but diligent hands bring wealth --If a little money does not go out, great money will not come in. Some lessons are never to early to learn! I peeked into the oldest kid's classroom--a 5th & 6th combination & only saw about 15 kids. I later heard only about half of them will go to Banaue for HS. So if you do the math, probably only 3 or 4 of the 22 first graders I met will go to HS.
We put our boots back on and step by step...each unique in size, shape & depth...we lowered ourselves into the midst of the terraces...surrounded on all sides...engulfed. Seeing them is one thing...being in them another. Almost mystical. We sat down often to just let it all soak in--okay, to rest. We watched the workers setting out seedlings, rebuilding the moats & trimming brush off the stone terraces. Endless. TIme less. Back at our Inn, we visited with 2 other couples are age...both guys had graduated from U of M...it is such a small world! One couple was from Montreal. The other from Boston...they travel about 50% of the year volunteering often with IVHQ. We swapped travel highlights & email addresses...who knows, we may end up travel with them sometime! Kindred souls all suffering from the same disease our Galapagos buddy labeled FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).
Update 40
When we opened our hotel door this morning, brilliant sunshine lit up paddies so they looked like mirrors! Such beauty. We took off hiking in a different direction, never tiring of the views...only tiring of the up & down terrain. This route took us past the school. We sat down to rest & read the mission statement posted on the building...chuckling about the hours we both were required to work on them and how many buzz words had drifted even here: life long learners, student centered learning, productive citizens, highest potential. The first grade teacher I'd met earlier somehow noticed us & came out to say Hi & invited us in again. We asked if she wanted us to play a few games & she readily agreed so soon we were teaching the kids Head, Shoulder, Knees & Toes & Doggie, Doggie Where's Your Bone? and Itsy, Bitsy Spider. All of us loved it. The teacher wrote down the words saying she was glad to learn new games. Then the second grade teacher came & invited to her class...so again, we played games. Kids & classrooms are always a treat for me! (Loved this sign posted in the 2nd grade class: If you always spoon feed kids, they will only learn the shape of the spoon.) At noon, we headed back up & around the mountain so we could catch the jeepney that would be waiting for us around 3. It was a slow, grueling climb out....but it had been so worth it! We arrived back in Banaue in time for dinner at the Los Vegas restaurant where a Filipino was performing Elvis songs...pretty good impersonation really...and Rog earned brownie points by asking me to dance. Then we ran into some kids we'd met a couple times already & made arrangements to meet up tomorrow at 9 and head to some hot springs. It is neat how quickly fellow travelers bond regardless of age or nationalities. Wish it were more like that in the "real world."
We took off early today to go deeper into the mountains...farther into this culture & away from civilization...to Batad. Rog forgot about being Mr. Careful and climbed on top of the jeepney...I did not as someone had to live for the grandkids! We chugged up and around and down the mountains on roads that clung to the side. Rog said it was exhilarating and the views were fabulous. At the end of the road was a shop where we "rented" a walking stick and wonders of wonders--I got a cold Coke Zero! The rest of the way was on foot. We passed many workers who were building more road and then onto a narrow but well worn path...the one the Batad villagers use & have used for many years. About an hour later, we came out of the woods and everywhere you looked...terraces! I'd read if you'd line them up side by side, they'd reach half way around the world...and now I can fathom that. The small village of Batad was a bit farther and placed int eh center of the terraces. We stopped part way down the mountain at Hillside Inn where we gladly took off our hiking boots and sat admiring the panoramic view while we ate...Rog a Middle Eastern dish & me, pizza (well kinda like) and a Coke Light...who'd of thunk? Hearing the kids at a nearby school, I took off to check it out. The first grade teacher invited me in where the 22 kids were quietly copying from the board. They greeted me saying, "Welcome visitor" & then said the ABC's & counted to 10 for me. The classroom was neat with birthdays posted, neat work displayed and two large signs:
Lazy hands make a poor man but diligent hands bring wealth --If a little money does not go out, great money will not come in. Some lessons are never to early to learn! I peeked into the oldest kid's classroom--a 5th & 6th combination & only saw about 15 kids. I later heard only about half of them will go to Banaue for HS. So if you do the math, probably only 3 or 4 of the 22 first graders I met will go to HS.
We put our boots back on and step by step...each unique in size, shape & depth...we lowered ourselves into the midst of the terraces...surrounded on all sides...engulfed. Seeing them is one thing...being in them another. Almost mystical. We sat down often to just let it all soak in--okay, to rest. We watched the workers setting out seedlings, rebuilding the moats & trimming brush off the stone terraces. Endless. TIme less. Back at our Inn, we visited with 2 other couples are age...both guys had graduated from U of M...it is such a small world! One couple was from Montreal. The other from Boston...they travel about 50% of the year volunteering often with IVHQ. We swapped travel highlights & email addresses...who knows, we may end up travel with them sometime! Kindred souls all suffering from the same disease our Galapagos buddy labeled FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out).
Update 40
When we opened our hotel door this morning, brilliant sunshine lit up paddies so they looked like mirrors! Such beauty. We took off hiking in a different direction, never tiring of the views...only tiring of the up & down terrain. This route took us past the school. We sat down to rest & read the mission statement posted on the building...chuckling about the hours we both were required to work on them and how many buzz words had drifted even here: life long learners, student centered learning, productive citizens, highest potential. The first grade teacher I'd met earlier somehow noticed us & came out to say Hi & invited us in again. We asked if she wanted us to play a few games & she readily agreed so soon we were teaching the kids Head, Shoulder, Knees & Toes & Doggie, Doggie Where's Your Bone? and Itsy, Bitsy Spider. All of us loved it. The teacher wrote down the words saying she was glad to learn new games. Then the second grade teacher came & invited to her class...so again, we played games. Kids & classrooms are always a treat for me! (Loved this sign posted in the 2nd grade class: If you always spoon feed kids, they will only learn the shape of the spoon.) At noon, we headed back up & around the mountain so we could catch the jeepney that would be waiting for us around 3. It was a slow, grueling climb out....but it had been so worth it! We arrived back in Banaue in time for dinner at the Los Vegas restaurant where a Filipino was performing Elvis songs...pretty good impersonation really...and Rog earned brownie points by asking me to dance. Then we ran into some kids we'd met a couple times already & made arrangements to meet up tomorrow at 9 and head to some hot springs. It is neat how quickly fellow travelers bond regardless of age or nationalities. Wish it were more like that in the "real world."
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Update 38
Learned much about the Ifugao religion from a local man who manned one of the many souvenir shops...without even asking! He told us:
they pray to many gods but all point up to the highest god, Kabunyan which points up to the same God as Christians. They freely accept both religions as both have the same basic value system and both believe in a higher power that watches over us.
A God for all.
Learned much about the Ifugao religion from a local man who manned one of the many souvenir shops...without even asking! He told us:
they pray to many gods but all point up to the highest god, Kabunyan which points up to the same God as Christians. They freely accept both religions as both have the same basic value system and both believe in a higher power that watches over us.
A God for all.
36 & 37
Update 36
It was packing time this morning, we are leaving our suitcases at CG & just traveling with our backpacks for the coming week. Cleaning up our condo was quick as it was basically bare. We climbed into the back of the CG van & by 9:30 was singing Onward Christian Solders ( in Tagalog--how do their words fit the melody so well?? Though I couldn't understand the sermon--the tone was accusatory--seems that's the norm in many places we've been to. Jaybee was translating for Rog--main message was be a vibrant & active Christian. After church, there was Sun School for the boys & we chatted with the minister. Then the boys piled inthe van & began chanting "Mang Inasal" & rocking the van...we'd told El we'd like to take the kids & staff to Man Inasal...where you get a 1/4 chicken, soup, drink & alllll you can eat rice! Word was out & the kids were revved up. What a blast to watch them mow down! It's a wonder there's any more rice left in Antipolo. 29 meals for less than $75. Sun p.m. was game time till about 4 when all the kids disappeared & soon we were called to the basement. A farewell son erupted...& so did my tears. Kids then individually told us what they wanted to thank us for...usually referring to us as Papa Bear & Mama Bear...though one of the girls choked up saying she felt like she had a Mommy & Daddy during our stay. They thanked us for teaching English, reading, computer learning games, fixing, painting, buying fruit,playing cards, basketball net & dinner out. But mostly they thanked us for being there each day & showing them we cared. They recognized we could have been off playing but choose to be with them. Small things in small ways...a Mother Teresa saying. Both of us tried to tell them what was in our hearts...we hope our words somehow help them heal a bit & build a stronger foundation to build their Christian life on. Then everyone circled us laying their hands on us & prayed. And once more we had to say good bye to people we'd come to love. Giving up hot showers, sleeping on 3" foam beds, washing our clothes out in a bucket, barking dogs & noisy motorcycles, sucing in exhaust & burning rubbish...actually seems like a very small price to pay for the richness of our time at CG.
El took us to catch a Manila bound taxi which took us to a bus station. And as if we weren't already feeling torn--Lydia, the cook & her son showed up...more thank you's, hugs & prayers...and a pillow with Psalms 40:1-2 ...God is our Refuge & Strength an ever present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear. We boarded the 10 pm bus headed for Banaue...and after reading the notes the kids had written us, we closed our eyes a bit overwhelmed by the day...hours later, we still had our eyes closed but it was nearly impossible to sleep as the plastic covered bus seats meant we kept slipping nearly off the seat. 9 hours & several cat naps later, we arrived at Banaue.
Update 37
As soon as we got to Banaue we saw them: the ancient (2000 yr old) & spectacular rice terraces that creeped up the mountains like a giant stairway...proving the most basic need for the Ifugao people. All built by hand without the aid of animals--unlike Machu Pichu where llama were used. Though it was named a World Heritage site in 1995, little has been done to assure their future & with more & more youth choosing to leave the labor intensive & subsistence life...like in China...their future is uncertain. Banaue is a busy town with many trekkers filling the hotels and keeping the local guides busy as they are necessary to traverse the vast mountain area. We wanted to learn more about the local Ifugao tribe so we went to the Banaue museum. Luckily, we were the only ones there & the 23 yr old who worked there willingly spent an hour or so answering our questions & explaining much about the culture. He himself had grown up in a traditional Ifugao hut...until his Dad deserted his family...then he had to find a job to help support his family. Soon he will be working in a local coal mine...crossing himself for safety each time he goes down. Here are a few things he shared:
-Ifugao men were heavily tattooed since the they were once head hunters & the tattoo could ID them if they lost their head. This practice in the 60's.
-Ifugao honor (not worship) their ancestors by putting their deceased body in a chair high above the hearth, picking off the dried body until only bones remained. Then the skull was mounted on the house & bones placed in nearby box. An animal is sacrificed (richer = bigger animal) as an offering & the meat is eaten by the villagers.
-Beetle nuts are chewed to give them energy & also it increases their body temperature needed in this colder area that sometimes dips to 10C. Still common as we see red teeth smiling at us often & NO SPITTING (the juice which leaves a permanent red stain) signs everywhere.
-Terraces are family owned & passed down to oldest son...sometimes 2 oldest depending size. No new ones are being built as all permanent water sources are being used. A rice farmer pays 50P ($1.25) a year income taxes. Also prop taxes but not sure $$.
-Rice here can only be planted once a year (vs. 2 or 3 times where fertilizer is used in the low lands). Rice is not exported as they can't grow enough here for their needs.
-Goats, pigs, ckns & dogs are raised for meat.
-Hoes are built on stilts with hearth on ground level, sleeping area on main floor with rice stored above that. Roofs are a dried grass...until recently when steel replaced most.
-Clothes use to be made from bark fibers & weaved...woman in striped skirts & men only wearing a long loin cloth (they call their lower ties..vs our neck tie)...and both carried better nut bag with long strings used to record days by tying one knot a day.
He told us much more ...but my favorite was his big grin when he said he loves going to visit his Grandpa who still lives in a traditional home... and being able to wear only his loin cloth again. We finished up the day watching a traditional dancing performance. Had to notice how little movement it contained--but after spending their days climbing the terraces & working in the paddies all day...they probably didn't have much energy to waste on dancing!
It was packing time this morning, we are leaving our suitcases at CG & just traveling with our backpacks for the coming week. Cleaning up our condo was quick as it was basically bare. We climbed into the back of the CG van & by 9:30 was singing Onward Christian Solders ( in Tagalog--how do their words fit the melody so well?? Though I couldn't understand the sermon--the tone was accusatory--seems that's the norm in many places we've been to. Jaybee was translating for Rog--main message was be a vibrant & active Christian. After church, there was Sun School for the boys & we chatted with the minister. Then the boys piled inthe van & began chanting "Mang Inasal" & rocking the van...we'd told El we'd like to take the kids & staff to Man Inasal...where you get a 1/4 chicken, soup, drink & alllll you can eat rice! Word was out & the kids were revved up. What a blast to watch them mow down! It's a wonder there's any more rice left in Antipolo. 29 meals for less than $75. Sun p.m. was game time till about 4 when all the kids disappeared & soon we were called to the basement. A farewell son erupted...& so did my tears. Kids then individually told us what they wanted to thank us for...usually referring to us as Papa Bear & Mama Bear...though one of the girls choked up saying she felt like she had a Mommy & Daddy during our stay. They thanked us for teaching English, reading, computer learning games, fixing, painting, buying fruit,playing cards, basketball net & dinner out. But mostly they thanked us for being there each day & showing them we cared. They recognized we could have been off playing but choose to be with them. Small things in small ways...a Mother Teresa saying. Both of us tried to tell them what was in our hearts...we hope our words somehow help them heal a bit & build a stronger foundation to build their Christian life on. Then everyone circled us laying their hands on us & prayed. And once more we had to say good bye to people we'd come to love. Giving up hot showers, sleeping on 3" foam beds, washing our clothes out in a bucket, barking dogs & noisy motorcycles, sucing in exhaust & burning rubbish...actually seems like a very small price to pay for the richness of our time at CG.
El took us to catch a Manila bound taxi which took us to a bus station. And as if we weren't already feeling torn--Lydia, the cook & her son showed up...more thank you's, hugs & prayers...and a pillow with Psalms 40:1-2 ...God is our Refuge & Strength an ever present help in trouble. Therefore, we will not fear. We boarded the 10 pm bus headed for Banaue...and after reading the notes the kids had written us, we closed our eyes a bit overwhelmed by the day...hours later, we still had our eyes closed but it was nearly impossible to sleep as the plastic covered bus seats meant we kept slipping nearly off the seat. 9 hours & several cat naps later, we arrived at Banaue.
Update 37
As soon as we got to Banaue we saw them: the ancient (2000 yr old) & spectacular rice terraces that creeped up the mountains like a giant stairway...proving the most basic need for the Ifugao people. All built by hand without the aid of animals--unlike Machu Pichu where llama were used. Though it was named a World Heritage site in 1995, little has been done to assure their future & with more & more youth choosing to leave the labor intensive & subsistence life...like in China...their future is uncertain. Banaue is a busy town with many trekkers filling the hotels and keeping the local guides busy as they are necessary to traverse the vast mountain area. We wanted to learn more about the local Ifugao tribe so we went to the Banaue museum. Luckily, we were the only ones there & the 23 yr old who worked there willingly spent an hour or so answering our questions & explaining much about the culture. He himself had grown up in a traditional Ifugao hut...until his Dad deserted his family...then he had to find a job to help support his family. Soon he will be working in a local coal mine...crossing himself for safety each time he goes down. Here are a few things he shared:
-Ifugao men were heavily tattooed since the they were once head hunters & the tattoo could ID them if they lost their head. This practice in the 60's.
-Ifugao honor (not worship) their ancestors by putting their deceased body in a chair high above the hearth, picking off the dried body until only bones remained. Then the skull was mounted on the house & bones placed in nearby box. An animal is sacrificed (richer = bigger animal) as an offering & the meat is eaten by the villagers.
-Beetle nuts are chewed to give them energy & also it increases their body temperature needed in this colder area that sometimes dips to 10C. Still common as we see red teeth smiling at us often & NO SPITTING (the juice which leaves a permanent red stain) signs everywhere.
-Terraces are family owned & passed down to oldest son...sometimes 2 oldest depending size. No new ones are being built as all permanent water sources are being used. A rice farmer pays 50P ($1.25) a year income taxes. Also prop taxes but not sure $$.
-Rice here can only be planted once a year (vs. 2 or 3 times where fertilizer is used in the low lands). Rice is not exported as they can't grow enough here for their needs.
-Goats, pigs, ckns & dogs are raised for meat.
-Hoes are built on stilts with hearth on ground level, sleeping area on main floor with rice stored above that. Roofs are a dried grass...until recently when steel replaced most.
-Clothes use to be made from bark fibers & weaved...woman in striped skirts & men only wearing a long loin cloth (they call their lower ties..vs our neck tie)...and both carried better nut bag with long strings used to record days by tying one knot a day.
He told us much more ...but my favorite was his big grin when he said he loves going to visit his Grandpa who still lives in a traditional home... and being able to wear only his loin cloth again. We finished up the day watching a traditional dancing performance. Had to notice how little movement it contained--but after spending their days climbing the terraces & working in the paddies all day...they probably didn't have much energy to waste on dancing!
Monday, February 9, 2015
33, 34 & 35
Update 33
"Me next" is what I hear often each day...and it's nice that my student pool keeps growing including boys who were too shy at first I chuckle to think how one boy asked me to teach him the F sound...a Filipino in Philippines. Several boys have stopped making wild guesses and now say, "Wait" as they try to sound out words...Ahhhh...I've always relished watching kids learn to read!! Rog is in high demand as Mr. Fix It...recent projects: cupbrd doors, hanging corkboard, reinforcing table legs & chair seats, fixing door frame. Often he makes a trip to the hardware store with a boy in tow. Yesterday it was Agathon who when Rog suggested a treat, said, "No--pants--get Daniel (who speaks better English)." With his pants & Daniel & Rog, they headed down a side street & deeper into a barrio. The farther they went, the more narrow the passage way until finally Rog could barely squeeze through...then it opened up to an area where boys were playing pool, women hunched over a mahjong set, kids running about, food cooking & several sewing. Agathon was measured & told to come back at 3. He was delighted with the results as Rog pd the $1.50 fee. Today JP went with Rog to the hardware store...when they got near, he said matter of factly, this is where I was a street boy. He is now studying for his HS exam, is a trusted & helpful big brother to many at CG & most respectful to staff & us. He has succeeded in his battle to break away from the strong chains the streets have on kids...freedom to do whatever they want...no boss....no rules....no chores. He has a future now. Alleluia!! Unfortunately, others have taken his place on the street. We left CG the same time Lydia the cook did and as we waited together together to catch a jeepney to town--she reached into her purse & handed us a letter from her son--the one in the "spitting contest" from earlier update. In meticulous cursive, he wrote:
"It is a blessing that my mother gets to work with such amazing people like you. I am very impressed with how God is using you to expand his kingdom. Like you, I also want to serve God. I am third year college student now and my mother's income can hardly support all my needs. For this reason, I seek help from your good hearts. Should you choose to give, I know God will bless you . By the grace of God, this person writing to you will someday be a dedicated servant of His and will be helping people exactly the same way you have helped him. " Guess you could say we gave a Pay Ahead donation. Lydia actually jumped...physically jumped for joy! Our days are filled with gems!
Update 34
Had a nice chat with a neighborhood shop owner. He'd spent 7 years on a cargo ship away from his family to earn the $$ to set up his shop. The shop fills the first floor & his home is above it. He introduced us to his wife, cousin & son...he is now a proud & happy man...finally. Last night we went in search of french fries...you can guess who's idea that was...we found some awesome ones & juicy burgers too. The owner seemed overly excited to have us there ...could be because we were the only ones in the restaurant...he asked if he could take our picture & us it for his website. This is actually not a rare occurrence here or in many of the places we've traveled...but it always takes us by surprise!
Update 35
CG was bussing with commotion & people when we arrived this a.m...the dentist was coming. The sponsoring group's name translated was "Help with No Return." They brought a mound of cold spaghetti & a sweet jello like dessert filled with corn. They loaded paper plates & our boys & many neighbors & church members chowed down. A portion of the basement was walled off with sheets & by 9 a.m. the first patient, a CG boy was getting a tooth pulled...almost everyone of the following 39 got at least one tooth pulled...one got 4...and never once did I hear a scream or moan or see anyone crying...just a lot of puffy cheeks! Incredible! Guess my high pain tolerance is no biggy around here. I visited with the Filipino dentist as I filed bags of amoxicillin & pain pills. He has volunteered his services often for 10 years now. He said it made his heart joyful...all I could think of was all those teeth in the waste basket. Rog and El (house dad) went to Robertson's Tool Store to spend the money DUMC's Women's Group had sent with us. Like a boy in a candy store, El loaded up on tools. He was thrilled to have what it will take to repair the van, motorcycle & things around the building...and to teach the boys to use them! We needed a break after this day, so we headed to the movies again. This time we saw Jupiter Ascending...basically an updated Star Wars with ships speeding through space barely missing each other & every imaginable object. As we rode home in a tricycle dodging a multitude of obstacles, Rog said, "Those space ships got nothing on us!"
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Thursday, February 5, 2015
32
Update 32
First I need to make a correction: a friend was curious about the bible being recognized in the Philippine constitution, so he did some research and found there was nothing about the bible in their constitution--so slash that info thanks to Dan! Certainly don't ever consider me a totally reliable source as I only write what I hear from locals, I see and what I feel. I welcome corrections & comments & other perspectives!!!
Yesterday I spent the afternoon at the gov't facility for street kids, petty crimes & abused girls. Again we took a huge pot of some type of porridge that was quickly gobbled up. They still did not have propane so rice was being cooked--really burned--on an outside burner using wood.
As I entered the gates, a couple young boys raced toward me, grabbed my hand & held it to their foreheads (a very common form of respect that the CG boys show us everyday)...and then both tried to kiss me on the lips...I let them kiss me on the cheek and they said, "I love you. You are my best friend." They were well versed in what pulls the heart strings. We played games again...the CG teacher asked me to show her different ones from last week so she could learn them also...so we played London Bridges, 7 Up and Balloon Volleyball (good thing I usually have several balloons in my pocket!) The kids roll with laughter & though hard to control...it was a great time! Nardeth again read them a story while the kids gave her 100% attention. A color page and a piece of candy added to the joy of their day. Throughout, the time, I had to avoid lip kisses, ignore leg rubbing and my lap was always full. So was my heart.
Rog has been working on putting sliding doors under the counter in the kitchen...they said they needed it to pass a kitchen inspection. He also fixed a bad electric plug ...he is often interrupted by a boy asking for some help on their school work. I spent time with the two people here who tutor...showing them websites to use...the kids love playing on them and that's what I spend most of my days doing...sitting next to them reading aloud what is on the computer as they don't have it hooked to a speaker. Also working on math facts with many. They love the multiplication 9 trick! The cook told me that to get most any job, you needed a college education...even to work at McD or as a janitor...and college is not cheap!
A funny thing happened as the cook & I walked to buy some watermelon--I took her to negotiate the price & pick the best ones...she told that her son had won a "spitting" contest. I repeated "spitting" trying to act it out...and she said yes and he will be in another and if he wins, he will get to go to England...again I said, "spitting?"...she said, "Yes, he spit very good English!" Smile!!
Finally met an American who lives in the area here. He has a business in town. He asked how long we'd been in the Philippines and when I said 3 week, he asked if I was in culture shock...he said it took him 3 months before he would come out of his house!
First I need to make a correction: a friend was curious about the bible being recognized in the Philippine constitution, so he did some research and found there was nothing about the bible in their constitution--so slash that info thanks to Dan! Certainly don't ever consider me a totally reliable source as I only write what I hear from locals, I see and what I feel. I welcome corrections & comments & other perspectives!!!
Yesterday I spent the afternoon at the gov't facility for street kids, petty crimes & abused girls. Again we took a huge pot of some type of porridge that was quickly gobbled up. They still did not have propane so rice was being cooked--really burned--on an outside burner using wood.
As I entered the gates, a couple young boys raced toward me, grabbed my hand & held it to their foreheads (a very common form of respect that the CG boys show us everyday)...and then both tried to kiss me on the lips...I let them kiss me on the cheek and they said, "I love you. You are my best friend." They were well versed in what pulls the heart strings. We played games again...the CG teacher asked me to show her different ones from last week so she could learn them also...so we played London Bridges, 7 Up and Balloon Volleyball (good thing I usually have several balloons in my pocket!) The kids roll with laughter & though hard to control...it was a great time! Nardeth again read them a story while the kids gave her 100% attention. A color page and a piece of candy added to the joy of their day. Throughout, the time, I had to avoid lip kisses, ignore leg rubbing and my lap was always full. So was my heart.
Rog has been working on putting sliding doors under the counter in the kitchen...they said they needed it to pass a kitchen inspection. He also fixed a bad electric plug ...he is often interrupted by a boy asking for some help on their school work. I spent time with the two people here who tutor...showing them websites to use...the kids love playing on them and that's what I spend most of my days doing...sitting next to them reading aloud what is on the computer as they don't have it hooked to a speaker. Also working on math facts with many. They love the multiplication 9 trick! The cook told me that to get most any job, you needed a college education...even to work at McD or as a janitor...and college is not cheap!
A funny thing happened as the cook & I walked to buy some watermelon--I took her to negotiate the price & pick the best ones...she told that her son had won a "spitting" contest. I repeated "spitting" trying to act it out...and she said yes and he will be in another and if he wins, he will get to go to England...again I said, "spitting?"...she said, "Yes, he spit very good English!" Smile!!
Finally met an American who lives in the area here. He has a business in town. He asked how long we'd been in the Philippines and when I said 3 week, he asked if I was in culture shock...he said it took him 3 months before he would come out of his house!
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
30 & 31
Update 30
Rog has located a nearby bakery so after tasting their ware, we went to CG. The boys were dressed up and the CG van was filling up fast with many local people was well as CG boys. Three of the boys joined us and we caught a jeepney arriving at the church at the same time the van did. The pastor was Sharon's uncle and a former CG house parent. He introduced us to the first CG grad who later sang in the praise band. The pastor also runs a building business and has 10 CG grads working for him. The First hymn was in English and one DUMC sings, Blessed Be the Name. ..sung at full volume & gusto. Next several were in Tagalog but since the boys have been making me read some Tagalot, I could sing along...not understanding a word. The sermon title on the big screen was Called to Serve...and typical here, the pastor spoke mostly Tagalog but with some English intertwined so I heard...and many are hiding that you are Christians from M - Sat....why are you living if you don't serve...and our names as well as a couple other volunteers of CG & one working with Youth With A Mission (YWAM) from Holland. The congregation was mostly youth and less than 100. I spent a little time talking to the young YWAM volunteer. She said YWAM was in many countries and had many volunteers. We have met soo many volunteers from sooo many countries. What would the world be like if there were no volunteers????
Update 31
Just a little bit about few things:
Went with Billy & Sharon to a restaurant at the highest point in Antipolo for a overlook of Manila...and if that wasn't high enough...we walked the swinging bridge up another 200 yards swaying in the breeze while holding our breath...so guess you could say the view from there was breathtaking!
While discussing Philippine history with one of the boys, it was really weird when he got excited about their Independence Day...because it was independence from us...in my life time!
Minimum wage here is 466p for ten hour day...that's a little over $10
There is Gov't health insurance...though not the best. Some employers give better coverage to their employees. Some even give retirement pensions.
You can buy a single cigarette...and so many do...including the youngest CG boy (10) who got caught and was kicked out of school for 3 days!
Driving in the right lane is dangerous--though paved & even with a painted side line...they just paved around existing poles & trees & support wires...like it's no big problem to be driving along and come to a pole dead center. And how do they get away with no traffic lights????
Ketchup is made from bananas
When the stores close up at night and pull down their metal doors, a new street "store" is soon set up...selling shoes, cds, clothing, snack foods, etc...how do people find these "night stores??"...or do they just rely on whoever is passing by??
School: got to visit the elementary school with one of the CG boys as my guide. Talked to several of the uniformed teachers who welcomed me into their classrooms where the ABC's, days of week & months, number lines etc. were on the walls & lots, lots of noisy uniformed students were bouncing up & down in their seats. I did not pass a quiet classroom. The kids read aloud what was on the chalkboard...seemed to be a contest over who could read the loudest. Also looked at their report cards...basic & simple...Love of God was graded along with reading, math, English, etc.
The Philippine constitution recognizes the Bible as the truth.
Great food choices have been: flan, lumpia, pork/ckn on a stick and many rice dishes topped with garlic, hot peppers, veges, pork/fish/ckn and lots of well seasoned broth. The boys eat about 4 cups of rice with various toppings 3x a day!
Snacking on salty treats and sucking sugar treats is almost constant...and all those tiny colorful bags litter the streets and yards like over-sized confetti. Most treats cost 1p or 2p (2 or 4c)
We went to the movie, In The Woods..staring Meryl Streep & Johnny Deep. Felt like we'd stepped back into USA for the evening as the theater was first class and though the popcorn wasn't quite as tasty...it was so nice to munch. We both liked the movie...and cost for both of us & popcorn was about $10.
Crazy to see precooked & vacuumed packed corn on the cob in the grocery store...walk a block & see corn on the cob being grilled on homemade grills using bits of wood for fuel.
We stop often at a little neighborhood store who loves practicing his English and now stocks Coke Zero for me!
Rog has located a nearby bakery so after tasting their ware, we went to CG. The boys were dressed up and the CG van was filling up fast with many local people was well as CG boys. Three of the boys joined us and we caught a jeepney arriving at the church at the same time the van did. The pastor was Sharon's uncle and a former CG house parent. He introduced us to the first CG grad who later sang in the praise band. The pastor also runs a building business and has 10 CG grads working for him. The First hymn was in English and one DUMC sings, Blessed Be the Name. ..sung at full volume & gusto. Next several were in Tagalog but since the boys have been making me read some Tagalot, I could sing along...not understanding a word. The sermon title on the big screen was Called to Serve...and typical here, the pastor spoke mostly Tagalog but with some English intertwined so I heard...and many are hiding that you are Christians from M - Sat....why are you living if you don't serve...and our names as well as a couple other volunteers of CG & one working with Youth With A Mission (YWAM) from Holland. The congregation was mostly youth and less than 100. I spent a little time talking to the young YWAM volunteer. She said YWAM was in many countries and had many volunteers. We have met soo many volunteers from sooo many countries. What would the world be like if there were no volunteers????
Update 31
Just a little bit about few things:
Went with Billy & Sharon to a restaurant at the highest point in Antipolo for a overlook of Manila...and if that wasn't high enough...we walked the swinging bridge up another 200 yards swaying in the breeze while holding our breath...so guess you could say the view from there was breathtaking!
While discussing Philippine history with one of the boys, it was really weird when he got excited about their Independence Day...because it was independence from us...in my life time!
Minimum wage here is 466p for ten hour day...that's a little over $10
There is Gov't health insurance...though not the best. Some employers give better coverage to their employees. Some even give retirement pensions.
You can buy a single cigarette...and so many do...including the youngest CG boy (10) who got caught and was kicked out of school for 3 days!
Driving in the right lane is dangerous--though paved & even with a painted side line...they just paved around existing poles & trees & support wires...like it's no big problem to be driving along and come to a pole dead center. And how do they get away with no traffic lights????
Ketchup is made from bananas
When the stores close up at night and pull down their metal doors, a new street "store" is soon set up...selling shoes, cds, clothing, snack foods, etc...how do people find these "night stores??"...or do they just rely on whoever is passing by??
School: got to visit the elementary school with one of the CG boys as my guide. Talked to several of the uniformed teachers who welcomed me into their classrooms where the ABC's, days of week & months, number lines etc. were on the walls & lots, lots of noisy uniformed students were bouncing up & down in their seats. I did not pass a quiet classroom. The kids read aloud what was on the chalkboard...seemed to be a contest over who could read the loudest. Also looked at their report cards...basic & simple...Love of God was graded along with reading, math, English, etc.
The Philippine constitution recognizes the Bible as the truth.
Great food choices have been: flan, lumpia, pork/ckn on a stick and many rice dishes topped with garlic, hot peppers, veges, pork/fish/ckn and lots of well seasoned broth. The boys eat about 4 cups of rice with various toppings 3x a day!
Snacking on salty treats and sucking sugar treats is almost constant...and all those tiny colorful bags litter the streets and yards like over-sized confetti. Most treats cost 1p or 2p (2 or 4c)
We went to the movie, In The Woods..staring Meryl Streep & Johnny Deep. Felt like we'd stepped back into USA for the evening as the theater was first class and though the popcorn wasn't quite as tasty...it was so nice to munch. We both liked the movie...and cost for both of us & popcorn was about $10.
Crazy to see precooked & vacuumed packed corn on the cob in the grocery store...walk a block & see corn on the cob being grilled on homemade grills using bits of wood for fuel.
We stop often at a little neighborhood store who loves practicing his English and now stocks Coke Zero for me!
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